Did you know that many women in the entire world have suffered themselves after became a mother? Yes, they did. They have a serious dilemma indeed. What is it? Being a full-time or working mother? Did it happened to you? That dilemma?
Well, my very strong ladies, both of them are good yet has it own weaknesses. I’ve made my unofficial observation. I observed both of full-time and working mother. The result is, women are incredibly tough and strong. Let me tell you my opinion.
A full-time mother has it own strength and weakness. The strength of being a full-time mother is her availability. Yes, when women decided to focus on her family, she has a lot of times for her family. They are available to watch their children growing up. They’re able to do or supervise the housekeeping matter. They need not to have a responsibility of many deadlines, or stressed out caused of bitchy boss, or depressed by colleague’s drama and nasty politics at the office. Also, they haven’t spend their energy to compete on carrier path.
Is it really fun to be a full-time mother? Yes, it is. Who won’t be grateful to see their kid’s first step or to hear their children’s words? A full-time mother has this chance anytime. Since they’ve been stayed at home almost all day, they’re had a chance to build up a very good connection with the kids, and getting closer and closer.
But wait, a full-time mother also has it weakness. They’re getting bored easily. Same activities, small interaction, and tiring on doing housekeeping work. Also, sometimes, some women forgot that they have to love their own self. They started being a well-i-am-a-super-busy-mother-and-wife and left things that they liked. And sometimes, a jealous full-time mother is easier to have some negative thoughts of their husband. They can be a very overprotective mother and wife sometimes.
Now, let me tell you my opinion about a working mom. I have many friends who stand as a working mom. Meeting with many people, facing the modernization in technology yet society, competing a position, and having their own income made a working mom tough. Even if they had a very limited time with their family, or hard feeling to leave the kids at home, or bad morning and a serious argue with their husband, they’re still able to look good and work professionally.
So, should we become a working mom? Well, you have to know that a working mom has their own suffer. They might not see their kid’s first step, they might have leave their kids in fever, they should have let their kids spent more time with the housekeeper or babysitter. Also, they have to be stressed caused by extraordinary deadlines or drama. It is a pain for them. Trust me, I know how struggle they are at the office. They missed their children all day long.
A full-time mother could give their unlimited time and attention to their children. But, it doesn’t mean that a working mom unable to watch their children growing up or raise up their kids well. A working mom had a chance to develop their competency, make a potential networking, or achieve any good position. But, it doesn’t mean a full-time mother have not some knowledge or experience to share, they have it.
Would you sorry for that? Me not. That’s what I called the art of being woman. It is tough right?
There’s no one is better than the others. You know why? It is all about decision, a commitment. Every choice has it plus and minus, and you have to responsible on it. Also, it doesn’t mean a full-time mother will always better than a working mom, or the opposite. A mother is incredibly tough and amazingly strong person I’ve ever known, either a full-time or working mom.
So, don’t be afraid to be one of them ladies. You are too strong to be afraid being an amazing person in the entire world, like Mother.
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